know your worth

It’s funny once you start looking back on your life and seeing all the trials and tribulations you’ve been through and how you ended up being the person you are today. I had the opportunity through sharing my stories to reflect upon my life choices, albeit one bad one after another and seeing how each decision, each person I encountered ended up helping mold me into who I am today. 

Self-worth is an internal state of being that comes from self-understanding, self-love, and self-acceptance.

Many of us try to be someone we’re not just to fit in, be liked and wanted. I did it too just to be friends . Now I think about it I feel how stupid I was. Years ago I was not I'm today. I was confused and constantly doubting my self, begging someone to stay, living a life on someone else advice, questioning myself "am I not good enough". My heart hurts for the girl I was then . I forgot about I'm a good person I deserve love and good things in my life. 

It’s a state that is somewhat timeless and unchanging because it’s a direct measure of how you value and regard yourself in spite of what others may say or do. It’s, therefore, something that doesn’t quickly or easily change when external factors or circumstances change.

Self-worth is steady and unflinching, and therefore, holds power to radically transform your life for the better.To have a high level of self-worth means accepting yourself wholeheartedly at all times despite your flaws, weaknesses, and limitations. It’s about recognizing the real value of who you are — right here, right now, at this present moment.